We lost the baby.

I lost the baby yesterday. We are totally devastated. I was in Sacramento for a conference. I came back from lunch and when I went to the bathroom I was spotting. I frantically tried calling my Dr. but the office was out to lunch. I called Adam not knowing what to do. He was upset and I told him I was going to go to the hospital to get checked out and I would keep him informed. I called the hotel front desk to find the nearest hospital. I drove myself there and was barely holding it together. As soon as I got in triage I lost it. I was all alone and scared out of my mind. The nurses were really nice and got me into a room in just a few minutes. Once I got into my room they took a urine sample and a blood sample. I then waited for 3 hours to see a dr. I was on the phone with Adam and my parents almost the whole time. I was a mess. I couldn’t believe this was happening when I had no one there for me. The dr. finally came in and they did a pelvic exam and he said my cervix looked good but there was a little blood. Then he went over the test results. My urine test came back negative for pregnancy and my blood work showed my Beta level at only 5. He told me I was young and in good health and should be able to get over this quickly. That was it. I was stuck there all by myself and just told I lost the baby. I still don’t understand what happened. I called Adam to switch me to the next flight home. My roommate for the conference was the only person who knew what was going on. She had to run a meeting while all of this was going on but came to the hospital to drive me home. We went back to the hotel and she helped me pack and took me to the airport. I cried almost all day yesterday including most of the 2 hour flight home. The people sitting around me must have thought I was a wack job. I really needed Adam. He held it together until we got home. The hardest part was seeing Eve. She was so upset to see me so upset and every time I look at her I start bawling. I know I may be rambling and probably missed a lot of details but I am just so heartbroken I can’t even think straight. I don’t know how I am going to get over this. My biggest fear is this will happen again. I am almost considering not having anymore children because I am not sure I can handle another loss like this. I will probably change my mind but for now I feel like my heart has been broken in a way that can never be fixed. I am so angry, hurt, confused, heart broken, and sad. I am so lucky though to have such a wonderful husband and daughter who even through their own pain are trying so hard to be there for me. I am so happy to be home. Yesterday was the worst day of my whole life.