Lists

I seriously do not get all the hype over 100 rules for moms of boys or 101 things every dad should do for their girls. I mean don’t get me wrong I read them and for the most part I shake my head and agree with the ideas but I don’t understand why they have to be for moms & sons and daughters & dads. I find myself reading the lists and tilting my head to the side and wondering why is this list for just me and my son why wouldn’t I do these same things with my daughter? The lists are hypocritical to me. They are defining gender roles but at the same time saying we should combat them. A woman should teach her son to do laundry. Why can’t my husband teach my son to do laundry? Isn’t me being the one to teach him just cementing the fact that it is a woman’s job? Why is it a dad’s job to teach his daughter about money? Do only men know how to handle finances? Why can’t I teach her that? While reading the list I just feel like there are all fine and dandy lists but I think instead of separate lists why not just make one list. What parents should do for their children. So here is my list for our family. I am sure I will continue to modify it over the years.



1. Tell your kids you love them every day a million times. You can never be told you are loved too much.

2. Be affectionate.

3. Be an example.

4. Make them a priority.

5. Be positive and laugh often.

6. Let your kids see you as a human and a super hero.

7. Be the parent when you need to but don’t be afraid to let the kid inside come out to play once in a while.

8. Sometimes you need to let go but be on the sidelines ready to pick them up.

9. Cheer them on and let them know how proud you are of them on a regular basis.

10. Be present.